I’ve heard this many times in one form or another: There’s no such thing as a “bisexual” man. Show me a “bisexual” or “gay-curious” man, and I’ll show you a closeted gay man.
Bullshit.
I think true, straight-down-the-middle, 50-50 bisexuality is a great rarity, but there is no question that I am bisexual.
I like girls. I like girls a lot. Breasts fascinate me, and I check out every pair that crosses my field of vision. I like girls. I like to feast on and fuck their pussies. I like to suckle on their tits. I like to screw their tight asses.
I like guys. I have a real weakness for sucking cocks. Show me some porno, and I’m hardly looking at the girl in the movie. For me, it’s all about the dick. I like guys. I like to be in sixty-nines with them. I like fucking and being fucked by them.
Someone once said (and I wish I could assign proper credit here), “There is nothing in this world quite like the hardness of sex with a man. There is nothing in this world quite like the softness of sex with a woman. They are beautiful. They are special. They are unique. And they can be enjoyed equally.”
That’s probably the best defense of bisexuality I have ever heard. And it’s true.
My favorite bisexual moment is licking a pussy while a guy is plowing your butt with his cock. It’s purely bisexual. It even underscores its bisexuality because that particular situation can be enjoyed equally by a man or a woman. You can stick either one in the equation and nothing changes.
A friend once told me, “I don’t trust bisexuals because they are confused. They don’t know what they want.”
Again, bullshit. I know exactly what I want. One from column A and one from column B, thank you. I order Chnese food that way all the time. What is so hard to figure out about it?
Here’s something else I’ve heard: “The sexual perversion I understand the least is bisexuality.”
Well, the sexual perversion I understand the least is celibacy (followed closely by people who fetishize vomit, but never mind). Still, if you choose to be celibate, that’s your business. I’m not going to deny you exist. I’m not going to say “show me a so-called ‘celibate’ and I’ll show you a closet whore”. I understand that is a legitimate option for folks.
In my book, I have explored my sexual relationships with men and women. If you read it, I think you’ll agree: “bisexual” isn’t something we made up to cover up our gayness. Bisexual is the real thing.